Sunday, March 23, 2014

Is a Few Months Enough Time…?

Woooow Gogol is quite the ladies man!

So far Gogol has been in three serious relationships: Ruth, Maxine, and now Moushumi. After two relationships that ended in a heart breaked Gogol, big mama Ashima decides to step in. She sets him up with an old childhood friend. The two immediately hit it off and have now been dating for a solid three months. Since they have been friends, even though they don't remember, since they were little kids, I am sure the two had a lot in common and easily hit it off.

A few months in to their relationship, they start to discover more about each others past. Moushumi grew up in England and later moved to America. There she studied at Brown and then moved to Paris where she met  guy named Graham. Now who is Graham you say? Oh no one except for the guy that Moushumi proposed to! Yup, SHE proposed. Must have been pretty in love, eh? Anyway, they move back to New York and start to plan their wedding. They also go and visit Calcutta and her family where it all goes down hill and the wedding is eventually called off. Oh by the way, all this happened just the summer before her and Gogol met…

Is this enough time? Now personally if this happened to me I would be absolutely devastated and it would definitely take me some time to recover. Lahiri describes Moushumi after the break up saying " All summer she went to the movies by herself, sometimes as many as three a day. She bought TV Guide every week and read it from cover to cover, planning her nights around her favorite shows. She began to subsist on a diet of raita and Triscuits. She grew thinner than she'd ever been in her life, so that in the few pictures taken of her in that period her face is faintly unrecognizable (Lahiri 218)". Well yeah she is like this! I would be too! What surprises me is how eager she is to jump in to another relationship after such a terrible heart break.

Does Moushumi have other intentions? Something she's not telling us about? We will see!

Happy reading!!


Monday, March 17, 2014

Ooooh Gogul…

Or should I say Nikhil. So as of now, Gogul has legally changed his name to Nikhil and is a completely new person. His attitude, personality, and perspective on life has completely been turned around. It's funny to think how something as small as a name, which are just letters, can make such a huge impact on somebody's life. Lahiri writes, "He wonders if this is how it feels for an obese person to become thin, for a prisoner to walk free. "I'm Nikhil," he wants to tell the people who are walking their dogs, pushing children in their strollers, throwing bread to the ducks"(Lahiri 102).  I find it somewhat comical how much more confident Nikhil becomes with this new name. Imagine if that is all it would take for the average person to become more happy, more hopeful. Do you think that everyone would do the same as Gogul did?

I really like how Lahiri compares this transformation to an obese person becoming skinny. Have you ever watched the show The Biggest Loser? These people join the show morbidly obese, and leave in the best shapes they have ever been in their whole life. Now lets go back to when they were fat. All these poor people talk about is how embarrassed they are to go out in public and participate in certain activities. In some ways, this directly relates to how the new Nikhil felt with his original name Gogul! He was embarrassed to even hear his name aloud in public. Lahiri says, "Warmth spreads from the back of Gogul's neck to his cheeks and his ears. Each time the name is uttered, he quietly winces" (Lahiri 91). Now that Gogul is Nikhil, he feels like he can conquer the world, do anything he wants, and most importantly get any girl he wants ;).

If only it were that simple to change your life around… Guess its easier said than done!

Happy reading!


Sunday, March 9, 2014

So far the book The Namesake has been fantastic! This book documents an Indian couple, Ashoke and Ashima, through their journey in America, the birth of their son,  the good times, and the bad times.

Early in the novel, Ashoke tells the story of his bear death train accident that left him with sleepless nights and countless memories of this tragic day. before the whole catastrophe, Ashoke met a man named Ghosh. Ghosh was a wise man who gave Ashoke advice that simply translated to  "go live your life and don't worry about anything else". Ghosh said to Ashoke, " Do yourself a favor. before it's too late, without thinking too much about it first, pack a pillow and a blanket and see as much as the world as you can. You will not regret it. One day it will be too late (Lahiri 16)". I really enjoy those quote because I feel it is extremely relatable not only to myself but to pretty much everyone. I feel like we all get caught up in our lives and lose sight of all the opportunities around us. Sometimes it 's okay just to let go and travel and be happy and not worry about what is happening behind you because if you keep thinking about it, odds are your going to find something worthy of holding you back.

Another idea expressed in this novel that really got me thinking is Ashmia and how much she feels like an outsider. Lahiri says, " But  nothing feels normal to Ashima. For the past eighteen months, ever since she had arrived in Cambridge, nothing has felt normal at all  ( Lahiri 5-6)".  This quote is also very relatable. Being a teenager in high school, and in my situation at a new school, in the beginning you  can feel somewhat like a foreigner. Everyone around you is already accustomed to their surroundings  and your still getting used to it. In Ashima's case,  all she can think about is her home and family. As the novel progresses you can see that Ashima starts to become happier when she is around people like her, of the same race and culture. Same with school, once you find the right group of friends that are just like yourself, it can make all the difference.




Saturday, February 8, 2014

   So far the book Notes from Underground has been well, interesting. The Underground Man seems to be very insecure about himself because he is always contradicting everything he says. He babbles about life, consciousness, and society and criticizes them all at the same time. It seems like the Underground Man lives a backwards way of life where he gives himself props for not being like everyone else, then later saying how he is jealous of the ones around him. I guess we will just have to see where the Underground Man goes from here!

   One thing that the Underground Man said that I actually thought was something to think about was when he talked about the normal person finding pleasure and enjoyment in something as painful as a toothache. The Underground Man finds it ridiculous how someone with a toothache can find enjoyment in a toothache probably to seek attention. The normal person will moan and groan therefore catching the attention from the people around them. I think this idea pertains to a lot of people and situations in the modern world. I think it is understandable to get hurt and maybe yell and scream out of pain, but when you keep doing it past an unreasonable point, it looks like you are desperate for attention. Being a teenage girl, it is very common to see this happen among other teenage girls. Some girls will get hurt, be having a bad day, or be annoyed and do some pretty obnoxious things for an absurd amount of attention. In doing so, most girls will feel an immense amount of pleasure because they will attract the attention of others around them. In the end, it is all a game that keeps going round and round. I think the Underground Man makes a good point with this idea, and I am excited to see what other great points the Underground Man will make.

Happy Reading!!

Thursday, February 6, 2014

Stereotypes: The Creation of a Single Story Amongst the African and Cheerleading Communities

     All cheerleaders are dumb blondes that weigh less than 100 pounds and all African Americans are voiceless slaves. Today our world is plagued by inaccurate stereotypes that influence the way we view different social groups. Chinua Achebe, author of the novel Things Fall Apart, succeeds in presenting a more accurate explanation of the African Ibo people. Unlike the popular idea that Africans are just black shadows of disease and starvation, Achebedemonstrates how the Ibo people are a civilized society with deeply rooted values and a commitment to education.  Another group that is falsely stereotyped are cheerleaders, who are commonly referred to as the dumb airheads who wave their pom-poms on the sidelines. Steve Almasy, author of the article “Cheerleaders Prep for Hours in Search of 2 ½ Minutes ofPerfection,” dispels the single story of how cheerleaders are just ditzy blondes by explaininghow being an all-star cheerleader takes strength, stamina, and athleticism. Almasy interviewsWorld Champion coaches and athletes and questions them on their work ethic and trainingtechniques. Chinua Achebe and Steve Almasy both strive to eliminate the single story of the Africans and cheerleaders by demonstrating how they are intelligent, dedicated, and honored in their community.

Chinua Achebe discredits the single story of the Africans by showing how they areeducated and well versed in their cultural environment. In introducing the Ibo people, Achebe says, “Among the Ibo the art of conversation is regarded very highly and proverbs are the palm-oil with which words are eaten” (Achebe 7). The Ibo challenge the stereotyped African by beinghighly educated and literate, where in some cultures they are viewed as uneducated and unmotivated. The Ibo converse in intuitive conversation, discussing advanced political and religious matters.. Achebe paints a clear picture of how the Ibo people defy the single story of African Americans by displaying their knowledge as well as their intellectual perspectives and ideas.
Like Achebe, Steve Almasy puts in perspective the mental requirements and knowledge that anall-star cheerleader must posses in order to be successful in the sport.  Almasy speaks withWorld Champion coach Courtney Smith-Pope about her athletes who says, “The way they are able to maintain such a high level of accuracy in competition is because they don’t just do it when they are perfect, they do it when they are going to make a mistake, and they have to get through it anyway” (Almasy, “Cheerleaders Prep for Hours in Search of 2 ½ Minutes ofPerfection”). Smith-Pope reveals how these high level athletes must have the mental stability and intellect to push themselves to get better each and every day. Cheerleaders must always be mindful of their surroundings during their fast paced routines, conscious of where their bodies are when they are tumbling, and keenly aware of their flyers and partners body positions. Smith-Pope clearly shows how these athletes are not the dull-witted girls on the sidelines, such as Achebe shows how the Africans are not just ignorant slaves, but competitors with the knowledge and mentality of champions. Although very different, Achebe and Almasy both show how the Africans and cheerleaders share a complex system of knowledge and intellect in their respective cultures, despite the common stereotypes that impact these two communities.  
Achebe demonstrates how the Africans resemble little of their stereotyped image of beingunproductive by showcasing their dedication and commitment to achieving purposeful goals and being industrious. In introducing the reader to Okonkwo, the protagonist of Things Fall Apart, Achebe says, “With a father like Unoka, Okonkwo did not have the start in life which many young men had. He neither inherited a barn nor a title, nor even a young wife. But in spite of these disadvantages, he had begun even in his father’s lifetime to lay the foundation of a prosperous future. It was slow and painful. But he threw himself into it like one possessed. And indeed he was possessed by the fear of his father’s contemptible life and shameful life” (Achebe 18). At a young age, Okonkwo dedicates himself to leading a prosperous life, despite the many obstacles that his fathers legacy leaves for him. Okonkwo is committed to creating a name for himself that is far stronger and more influential than what his father intended him to have. Okonkwo’s dedication and drive for success demonstrates how the Ibo people are not just pieces of property who lack control of their lives. Instead, they are real people who are dedicated to achieving important morals, values, and goals. Achebe succeeds in dispelling the stereotyped image of an African American by demonstrating Okonkwo’s will to succeed and demand for prosperity.
Likewise, Steve Almasy displays how cheerleaders are dedicated and devoted, unlike their common portrayal as being passive and indifferent . In an interview with World Champion coachKelly SmithKelly describes her athletes as “Those kids that would be in the gym 23 hours of a 24 hour day if they could. It means that much to them” (Almasy). To be a champion, you have to act like a champion, which is exactly what these girls are doing. Their dedication to their craft, like that of Okonkwo’s to improving his reputation, shows the passion and desire these athletes have to succeed. These girls are in the gym more than ten hours a week, putting their elite skills to the test and their trust in the hands of their teammatesWhere the stereotypical cheerleader is said to be “just there for fun”, Kelly Smith’s explanation of these athletes challenges all other assumptions and further abolishes the cruel single story of the cheerleader. Achebe and Almasy both enhance the complete view of these communities through explanation of their dedication and eagerness to succeed.   
Lastly, Achebe illustrates the Africans intricate traditions and social standards to show how the Ibo people are honored in their communityChinua Achebe says, “Okonkwo was clearly cut out for great things. He was still young but he had won fame as the greatest wrestler in the nine villages. He was a wealthy farmer and had two barns full of yams, and had just married his third wife. To crown it all he had taken two titles and had shown incredible prowess in two inter-tribal wars. And so although Okonkwo was still young, he was already one of the greatest men of his time” (Achebe 8). Okonkwo is a man of high esteem and dignitywhose pristine position in Umofia shows how the Ibo people live in a civilized society full of social standards and values that determine the rank of its population. Okonkwo’s pride in his crops and elite reputation demonstrates how the Ibo have hierarchy system, with members like Okonkwo demanding respect and recognition from all members of the community. Achebe's description of the respected Okonkwo defies the single story of the African population as being voiceless property who lack respect from their peers.
For those cheerleaders who are given the opportunity to participate in the countrys most elite competition, there is no greater honor. Like Achebe, Steve Almasy displays how cheerleaders are honored and respected in their community. In an interview with World Champion Mikayla RaleighMikayla saysThe most prestigious event is the World Championships of All-StarCheerleading. It’s like the Olympics of cheerleading. There is just nothing that compares to the feeling of hitting a hard stunt or flipping through the air and then hearing the crowd roar when you hit it” (Almasy). Here, Mikayla describes the epitome of honor in the cheer world, similar to the honor of owning titles and yams in the village of Umofia. At the World Championships, cheerteams perform what they have dedicated their lives to in return for praise, celebration, and occasionally a gold metal. For those cheerleaders that have worked up to the elite level they are sought after for guidance and direction from those below them with less experience.  They aresimilar to a celebrity in the cheer world as it is highly respected to achieve the skills and expertise that they have. Mikayla denounces the single story of the cheerleader with her lively explanation of the World Championships and by showing how her and her teammates seek honor and approval from their fans and coaches.
Ultimately, it is clear that stereotypes lack complexity and are inaccurate in providing a clear and thorough representation of certain populations. Steve Almasy and Chinua Achebe both strive to dispel the single story of the Africans and cheerleaders by displaying their intelligence, dedication, and honor in their communities By doing so, both authors display a side to the story that is otherwise not generally exposed. Imagine if this was always the case, where nobody made despicable assumptions solely based on their corrupt opinions. With this mindset, the worlds populations would be a lot more compassionate and understanding of those who may not have the same skin color or speak the same language as themselves. Furthermore, Chinua Achebe and Steve Almasy clearly disband the single story of the African Americans andcheerleaders, paving the way for a more thorough understanding and investigation into the lives of other commonly stereotyped figures.

Monday, January 20, 2014

The New and Improved...?

So far, the book Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe has been a really interesting read,  shedding light on the single story of the African community. The people of Umofia live a very traditional life, following in the footsteps of their ancestors before them. When the missionaries come in and try to lure the Africans in to a whole new way of life, they are nothing but stunned and surprised by what has just come upon them  

Think about it. You and your family are living the cookie cutter lifestyle that all of your ancestors have followed for years and years before you. Now here comes some guy that doesn't even have the same skin color as you and he tells you that everything that you have ever believed in is false. All of your religious practices are false and mean absolutely nothing. How would you react? I know I would tell this missionary guy that he is nuts! Who does this guy think he is, barging in to my community and bashing every tradition and god that I have ever grown up believing in! 

It surprises me how relaxed the people of  Mbanta are when the Christians  arrive. For the most part, they seem very nonchalant about the whole thing and don't do that much to  stop it. Yah they give them the Evil Forest to build their church on, but you would think that they would do more. The people of Umofia are generally a more violent group so it shocks me that they didn't attack the Christians right off the bat.  I guess we will just have to see if the Mbanta people come back around to push the Christians out! 

Happy reading!!


Saturday, January 11, 2014

Change Happens In the Blink of an Eye


Ric Elias is a man whose entire life flashed before his eyes as he plummeted towards the Hudson River in an airplane whose engines were shutoff. On his way down, Elias learned and thought about three things:

1. It all changes in an instant so don't postpone anything.

2. Don't let your ego get in the way, don't waste time on things that don't matter with people that do matter, and be happy not right.

3. Be a good dad.

This TED talk stood out to me because it really shows how in a matter of seconds you could be looking at your life thinking about all the things you could have done differently. Elias is put in a life threatening situation that ultimately results in him leading a better life after this experience. Elias now lives his life with out any hesitation, regrets, and as a benefit to the people around him.

I believe it is hard to feel what Elias felt on his way down in this plane without actually having been in a situation like that. That's why I loved this video so much because it really helps you realize how short life could potentially be. There is no time to procrastinate in doing what you love because who knows, you could be gone tomorrow!

One idea that stood out to me is when Elias said "Don't waste time on things that don't matter with people that do matter". Don't dwindle on the small things in life that don't mean anything with those who make an impact in your life. I feel this quote is very inspiring because it could be looked at as a way of life. As long as you look beyond the small issues of what's right in front of you and enjoy the big picture with the ones you love,  your life will be nothing but successful and happy.